Welcome to our family. We enjoy helping people reach within themselves to find out what makes them happy. Then get them to live out that discovery.
To get to that end, we will always share our honest views and opinions. We will cover things relating to health, your mental (thought process) and most important, add some music at times and jokes. Life has to be enjoyed.
We have a saying – “It ain’t right, it ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion”. What that means is, we are different and therefore we may see the world from a different perspective at times. We must learn to accept (we didn’t say agree) those differences. Acceptance will allow us to live in a more peaceful environment.
It also means that each of us are responsible for the decisions that we make. So always do research (no matter who’s site you are at), so that you make the decisions that are right for you and your family.
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Have you ever used the words, “I am very shy”, “I need to improve my communication skills”, “How do I stop being shy” or maybe you have heard others use similar words.
How about the belief that people that can talk to everyone, they are communicators and born that way? Sometimes called “natural born sales people.” Aren’t they great communicators?
Well the answer (from my perspective) to both situations is the same. If you learn to get beyond yourself and actually care about what is happening with others, then communication is very easy flowing.
Real quick, let me correct the notion that a “talker” is a communicator. A “talker” is a “talker” and in most instances just want to hear themselves. They are usually looking for someone to agree with their perspectives.
Believe it or not, there are those that say things just to get into a debate. Winning the debate makes them feel “special.”
A great communicator is a person that is a good “listener” and allows others to shine. They can allow others to shine because they are very confident in who they are.
I learned this a long time ago when I met a person that kept asking me questions about basketball (one of my favorite subjects). He allowed me to share my views and his input was actually more “questions”.
I didn’t realize it until later when I analyzed our conversation. I felt he was one of the greatest communicators I had ever met. Then I realized he didn’t talk. He let my favorite subject shine – “Me”.
So to become a great communicator and eliminate the shy belief, just talk with others as if they are human beings. Find out what is going on in their life. Actually care about them.
If you practice “listening” to what people say and “feed back to them what they said”, (to make sure you fully understand), you will notice that people will call you the “Great Communicator”.
By the way, people that use “shy” as a way of “being” are just saying, “I don’t know what to talk with others about and therefore I am uncomfortable.”
Practice caring (for some of you that is going to take practice – lol) and “shy” will go away.
Even those of you who claim to be shy will get on a “roll” and keep talking when it is a subject you are familiar with or that is important to you.
So to become a communicator – find common ground and allow others to shine.
It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion.
Your Uplifting Partner
Ron “Simplified” Myers
I am not a person that post things that I read or that are sent to me because the content does not belong to me. I am making an exception today because this email is so important to all. I am not sure where the information started but it was sent to me from a relative. The content is all that really matters. I am pasting the entire email and hope that you take the information seriously.
NOW HEAR THIS…NOT ALL THIEVES ARE STUPID!!
1. Some people left their car in the long-term parking at San Jose while away, and someone broke into the car. Using the information on the car’s registration in the glove compartment, they drove the car to the people’s home in Pebble Beach and robbed it. So I guess if we are going to leave the car in long-term parking, we should NOT leave the registration/insurance cards in it, nor your remote garage door opener.
This gives us something to think about with all our new electronic technology.
2. GPS.
Someone had their car broken into while they were at a football game. Their car was parked on the green which was adjacent to the football stadium and specially allotted to football fans. Things stolen from the car included a garage door remote control, some money and aGPS which had been prominently mounted on the dashboard. When the victims got home, they found that their house had been ransacked and just about everything worth anything had been stolen. The thieves had used the GPS to guide them to the house. They then used the garage remote control to open the garage door and gain entry to the house. The thieves knew the owners were at the football game, they knew what time the game was scheduled to finish and so they knew how much time they had to clean out the house. It would appear that they had brought a truck to empty the house of its contents.
Something to consider if you have a GPS – don’t put your home address in it… Put a nearby address (like a store or gas station) so you can still find your way home if you need to, but no one else would know where you live if your GPS were stolen.
3. CELL PHONES
I never thought of this…….
This lady has now changed her habit of how she lists her names on her cell phone after her handbag was stolen. Her handbag, which contained her cell phone, credit card, wallet, etc., was stolen. 20 minutes later when she called her hubby, from a pay phone telling him what had happened, hubby says ‘I received your text asking about our Pin number and I’ve replied a little while ago.’ When they rushed down to the bank, the bank staff told them all the money was already withdrawn. The thief had actually used the stolen cell phone to text ‘hubby’ in the contact list and got hold of the pin number. Within 20 minutes he had withdrawn all the money from their bank account.
Moral of the lesson:
a. Do not disclose the relationship between you and the people in your contact list. Avoid using names like Home, Honey, Hubby, Sweetheart, Dad, Mom, etc….
b. And very importantly, when sensitive info is being asked through texts, CONFIRM by calling back.
c. Also, when you’re being texted by friends or family to meet them somewhere, be sure to call back to confirm that the message came from them. If you don’t reach them, be very careful about going places to meet ‘family and friends’ who text you.
*PLEASE PASS THIS ON
* I never thought about the above!
As of now, I no longer have ‘home’ listed on my cell phone.
Even if this does not pertain to you….Pass it on to your family and friends.
Recently I was reading “Manifest Your Desires by Esther and Jerry Hicks and the subject revolved around being an observer vs visionary.
Esther (Abraham) made the statement that “The better it gets, the better it gets and the worse it gets, the worse it gets”.
To (simplify) my understanding of what is being said is we continue to attract – “that which we continue to focus on”.
If you are spending your life always looking at how things are wrong. How everyone is evil. How the president is the reason for the worlds problems, etc.; you will continue to have things come into your life to complain about.
Why?
We are like magnets. We attract what will keep us in the same state of mind. That way we can continue to have the same emotions that we have grown comfortable with.
Haven’t you noticed that angry people find a way to be angry over everything (no matter how minor)? People that are really happy, are always happy. Tony Robbin states that each human being has about 6 emotions that they visit routinely, even though there are thousands.
So, if you are an “observer” of life, you respond according to what your eyes can see and what your past has taught you. If you are a “visionary”, you understand that you control your future by what your eyes can see, but what your future will bring. That adjustment on seeing the future in the way you want it is the difference between those that keep the things they have always had (can’t stay in relationships, broke financially and the list goes on) and those that have an incredible future.
By the way, the choice is yours. Be an “observer” of life or be a “visionary” and create your life.
It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion.
Your Uplifting Partner
Ron “Simplified” Myers
I was listening to Eric Worre (Network Marketing Pro – NMPRO) talk about defining your enemy. He said you must be clear on “who the enemy is” because it helps in your writing, creating of your videos and your creativity (me paraphrasing).
My first thought was “I don’t have enemies”. It is a waste of time and energy. The reason I felt this way is because I was looking at the phrase from a “people” perspective. When it comes to human beings, I don’t have enemies. Just because I don’t want to travel the path you are on, it doesn’t make you my enemy. We are just traveling in different directions. It’s that simple. I understand you weren’t born to make me happy, that’s my responsibility.
I thought about the statement a little longer and it hit me, he didn’t say it had to be a person.
So my enemy is “any training” that teaches people that the reason they are where they are in life is because of someone else or something outside of them. When you buy into this philosophy, you become a victim. How can you change things in your life when someone else is in control?
Do things happen that you didn’t plan? Yes, but how you respond is your choice. And the way you respond will determine the action that you will take. The action you take will determine where you will be in the future. The future (that you call today) is in response to the decisions that you made yesterday.
Tony Robbins talked about the difference in people’s life’s comes down to the “decisions” that they make.
Couldn’t be any clearer.
It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion
Ron “Simplified” Myers
Uplifting Life Partner
Do you know we have made relationships seem so complicated? People are writing books. We have shows that are called “reality” which the correct name should be “Unrealistic TV”.
Relationships are real simple. If you wink, wave, shake hands or just walk past someone, you just had a relationship. Now these may be shallow relationships, but they are relationships. It is an interaction with another. It is that simple.
Now if you want to go deeper because this explanation is too simple, let’s take the word “relate” which is what a relationship is.
Tony Robbins teaches there are 6 human needs. Not wants, needs. We all have different priorities for the 6 needs and we have different ways about achieving the 6 needs. So if we all have the same 6 needs, then again, we are already related.
The reason people have relationship issues are; they spend too much time trying to prioritize other people’s needs for them. No one was born to please you. They are here to travel their own path.
As you watch them and get to know them, you get to “decide” if you want to continue to go down the same path as them. If you don’t agree with them and travel that path with them anyway, don’t blame anyone but yourself for having a frustrating life. You are always in control of your decisions and your emotions.
I know, “I can’t control my emotions”. Yes you can and by the way, “You do”, by the way you think. I am not going to cover emotions here because that is another conversation.
Quit making relationships complicated. Allow people to be themselves and then spend your time with the ones that are attending the same party you want to attend.
It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion.
Your Uplifting Partner
Ron “Simplified” Myers
We are always hearing stories about how the subconscious mind operates. How it is working behind the scene.
Well I am going to throw some stuff in the water. You do not have a subconscious mind and it is not doing anything in the background.
What you talking about Ron?
Everything that you have in your mind was put there consciously. You have had and continue to have experiences in your life. You write a story about what occurred (your perspective).
The more you write (add) to the story and keep repeating it to yourself, it turns into a belief. So through your conscious efforts, you have programmed yourself to see the world in a certain way.
That conscious programming is what people have labeled “subconscious mind”. Now, how is it “subconscious” when you “consciously” put it there?
Why is this understanding significant?
If you believe things are playing in the background and are out of your control, you are a victim. If you recognize that you are doing the programming, you know that you have the power to reprogram. This restores the “power” back to you and gives you control of your future.
Enjoy the journey and program the things that will take you where you really want to go.
It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion.
Your Uplifting Partner
Ron “Simplified” Myers
PS – Listening to your inner-self, your source, God, vibration, energy (whatever you believe) is not what I am talking about. “Source” is another conversation and that connection is significant and will never lead you in the wrong direction.
Have you ever looked at someone and because of their outward (physical appearance), you didn’t ask them on a date? How about the other way around? You asked someone out and they looked you up and down and said “No”.
Now we know some people have and will use an excuse as a polite way to say “no” and you have probably done this yourself. Bottom line is the “date” didn’t occur because of physical appearance. Some will ask themselves, “Do I want to be seen with this person? What will friends and family say if they saw me with this person?
I believe this misunderstanding of what dating is, actually cheats most people out of the opportunity to really enjoy life and all it has to offer. There are people that could add great value and excitement to our lives, but we don’t give them the time of day. Why? Because we don’t understand “dating”.
Dating is any time you set a date, time and place to meet with another and the both of you make that appointment. As you continue to do this, you are dating. My mother and I went to a basketball game a few nights ago. That was a date.
Why did I use my mom as an illustration?
Because dating is not intimacy.
Dating is just sharing time with others. If we could all understand this and keep it simple, we could go out and just enjoy life. We can have lunch or take in a movie with others that we may not be physically attracted to, but we have a lot of “life” in common. We can treat people as people and not like every one is auditioning for a marriage role.
Do you know how much pressure this understanding will relieve and how much “Fun” you would be able to add to this journey called “life?” You could actually be yourself and laugh. You will no longer have to send a “representative” on your dates.
Note: A representative is “You” acting like someone else. Being phony, fake or whatever words you can relate too.
My recommendation is start “dating” and send the real “You”. Enjoy your dates and the rest of your life.
It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion
Your Uplifting Partner
Ron “Simplified” Myers
Most are spending a lot of time studying and learning the law of attraction. What I have come to understand is the “law of allowing” is where everyone is struggling.
The “law of attraction” is the “ah ha” moment. It is the awakening (understanding) that you create and attract everything that is in your life. The way you do that is by what you “focus” on.
Now you have a choice. Either you deny it and continue to blame others for your life or you accept it and take responsibility for your life.
Once you come to grips with the fact that everyone has a free “will”, then you understand why some things will occur around you that you did not create. People are creating around you at all times. How you perceive the things around you will determine what actions you take and therefore how you allow others “actions” to affect you.
Haven’t you noticed there are certain people that always seem to run into trouble?
Aren’t there others that it seems like trouble just avoids them?
They leave the party just before the fight breaks out. They leave work before the customer that chews everyone out comes in. Everything they touch turns into “Gold”. These are not coincidences. The vibrations that each of us is setting forth at every moment is what creates what we call “reality”.
That pretty much sums up the “law of attraction”.
Where people are having their challenges is in their willingness to “stop resisting” the law. That brings us to the “law of allowing”. This is where all the work is. Why? The law of attraction works whether you believe it or not, agree with it or not. Your resistance is why you will continue to get what you say you “really really don’t want”.
It ain’t right. It ain’t wrong. It’s just my opinion.
Your Uplifting Partner
Ron “Simplified” Myers
Welcome to our family. We enjoy helping people reach within themselves to find out what makes them happy. Then get them to live out that discovery. 
